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St Mary's Battersea, A Church with an open heart and an open mind

Getting Married at St Mary's   

Christianity and Marriage

A wedding ceremony marks only the beginning of a marriage and is a public witness before God to the love that two people have for each other. A Church wedding makes certain themes clearer: the concept of a covenant between the couple reflects the relationship between God and the world; the idea of the ‘sacrament of marriage’ reflects the miracle of what God is doing in human lives as the couple make promises to each other.
 

Second marriages

David and Lindsay celebrate their civil partnership

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At St Mary’s we understand that some marriages fail and we try to help people rebuild their lives in new relationships. If you have been divorced and would like to discuss the possibility of being married a second time in church please do not hesitate to speak to one of the clergy. 
 

David and Lindsay celebrate their civil partnership

 

Civil Partnerships
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The law around civil partnerships is still fairly new and it is not yet possible to marry same-sex couples in church. However at St Mary's we try to do all we can to help people celebrate their relationship together. 

The vicar is usually available in Church on the third Monday of every month between 6.30 pm and 8pm for any further enquiries and initial contact. Please  telephone the parish office (020 7228 9648) for more details.

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Legal information

Everyone (regardless of nationality) resident within the parish boundaries has a right to be married by banns at St Mary's so long as there is no legal impediment. You do not need to have been baptised. 

It is also possible to get married at St Mary's if you are already on the church Electoral Roll.  To join the electoral roll you must have been baptised and must have already attended worship at St Mary's regularly for at least 6 months.  

The Church of England
Marriage in the Church of England can be authorised in a number of ways. 
i) Banns are the easiest and most commonly used method. They involve notice of your forthcoming wedding being read out in both the bride and the groom’s parish churches on three Sundays in the period three months before the wedding. If you both live in the same parish that is all that you need to do but if one of you lives in another parish banns will have to be called there too. It is customary for couples to attend the calling of their banns. These will take place during the main act of worship on Sundays. Attendance will help you feel more comfortable with the church surroundings and this will have obvious benefits in terms of your nervousness on the big day. 

ii) Licences are a quicker method than banns but more expensive. A common licence is  usual where one or both people are foreign nationals, and a Special licence allows people to be married without the usual requirement of living in the parish or belonging to the Electoral Roll.

Read more about Marriage in the Church of England here  
The text of the 1928 (old language) wedding ceremony here  
The text of the modern language (Common Worship 2000) wedding ceremony here  
The text of the 1662 (very old language) wedding ceremony here

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